brokenbutterfly asked: Every relationship I have gotten into, the guy has a hard time accepting that I have four cats. I also love puppies. I am planning on getting one in a month. I also want to work with pets. My guy has a hard time with this and all we do is argue over it, but I can’t change myself, its what brings me joy. Three of the cats I have are rescued. I feel obligated and I feel like they are my responsibility and I am not going to give them up no matter what, but why is it so hard for him to inderstand that taking care of animals is my passion? He keeps trying to make me change, but the only think I told him I woudl do is not bring any more cats in the house . But he still complains everyday. I am thining about leaving.I need someone who lets me be me. Plus its not like its a bad thing there are many worse things I could be doing. I also told him that i love animals even before we became gf and bf, but he wont just accept it. It brings me joy.I dont feel that i should have to give up what I love
Anna